No one likes to lose. So how far would you go in order to win?
Its difficult to understand the issue sometimes. There I met a person who likes to win so much that the issue of losing never ever flash through his mind. But on the other hand, there exist another who literally does not possess any fighting spirit or rather motivation in life. Is it the workings of character? Upbringing? Or just plainly genetically determined?
Its quite scary to witness the scenario every now and then. In these people eyes, I see fire. The hot fiery eyes that does not even allow one to commit any margin of errors. They play by their lives with victory as the ultimate purpose; mistakes will never be forgiven and forgotten. Their ‘winning mentality’ has so called surpassed the initial objectives even to the extent of sacrificing anything in the name of victory. Maybe that’s the joy in life, maybe they felt only victory is able to bring satisfaction. I really don’t know. Only the subject would be able to understand themselves better.
The notion is neither bad nor it needs a little bit of curbing. Rather, a balance of both extremes would make us look more humanize in a sense. If life is judged by who wins more, then the world would more or less be one without any human touch. Instead, I believe what needs to be done is to learn the art of ‘kan kai’ a little bit more, be less perfectionistic and taking things like a pinch of salt.
Its in the character. There is so much more to learn to allow for the chance of character shaping. It seems very much similar to an experimental protocol: things take time, be patient and there you enjoy the fruits of your labour. Think about it…..
~ Sometimes I really wonder what my brain is made up of cos ideas would just come flashing by without notice but I’ll make sure the info is all captured down.
